The following article was written by Vahid, who is from Australia. Vahid has a keen interest in Tai Chi, Yoga, Meditation, Psychology, Music Production and Spirituality.

How To Be A More Loving Person

There is this predominant message in the new age movement about love and romantic relationships. Love is a vibration. I will explain this more clearly.

• Love is an expression.

• Love is a vibration.

• Love is understanding and compassionate.

• Love is calming and can be used to remove or reduce negativity and self hatred.

• Our cells stay younger for longer and are in their optimal state when fed ‘love’.

• Our heart chakra emits the ‘love’ vibration when we are feeling loving.

• Love is romance.

• Love is a happy relationship with someone.

• Love creates empathy so love eliminates abuse.

• Most people cannot love properly because they have blockages in their heart charka, that is, negative trauma in their heart chakra which is restricting the flow of energy.

The Frequency Of Love

Love is a vibration, it is a frequency. It has been measured. 528 Hz. Love is evident everywhere in this universe.

In order to ‘tune-in’ and receive this love, one needs to be resonating at the same vibration. In order to resonate, one needs to heal on all levels.

Love is warm, it is yin, it is dark, it is green and pink, it is nurturing, it is yielding and it is receptive.

The true image of love, that is, what it would look like under a microscope, is the ‘Flower of Life’. Amazingly enough, that is the building block of all substances in the physical world.

Understanding Love

Love is a type of energy which is received and delivered on a soul-level. The soul itself is a higher energy field. Energy is needed for physical things to function.

The soul provides consciousness and that consciousness allows for expansion and experiment of thought.

This consciousness comes directly from the soul, without it we would be like ants, just doing and not thinking. This is why we have a soul, and more importantly, a heart chakra.

The Heart Chakra & Love

The heart chakra is what allows us to experience love, without it we cannot. For love is an energy/vibration, and our soul is what gives and receives this vibrational energy.

The heart chakra can also be used to hate. It is the centre of all emotion. It is also important to know that positive emotion such as love and peace creates expansion of the heart chakra.

So we actually have a stronger heart chakra, and feel more positive emotions and therefore have more positive experiences.

Whereby negative emotion will make the heart chakra contract, you will get a weaker heart chakra and you will feel more negative emotion and experience more negative outcomes. Your vibration will also reduce in doing so.

Next time you feel anything, bring your awareness to the area in the middle of your chest. This is where your heart chakra lives, what is happening to it? Is it bubbling brightly? Or is it burning painfully?

Observe it, and also use it as a guide in life. Many successful people have tuned into their heart chakra and literally asked it for guidance.

Since within yourself you have the knowledge of many lifetimes, the heart chakra will always guide you properly, as long as you listen to its loving advice not the negative blockages which can often delude you.

The heart chakra will contract at a “no” answer, and expand with a “yes” answer. This is where emotion predominantly comes from, the heart!

How Do I Love More?

Heal. We hear this message of love everywhere we go. But we cannot love without being healed. Love cannot be properly given and received, when the vibration of resentment, anger or frustrationis held in the heart chakra.

One needs to heal, in order to love. The new age message of just consciously changing thought in order to love more, is incorrect. This needs to be dealt with from a deeper perspective. Knowledge is needed.

What Are Things I Can Do To Love More?

1. Observe beautiful thing’s, such as the joy of a baby, or a cute puppy.

2. Listen to “this” it will emit from and to you a frequency of love.

3. Heal yourself on all levels.

4. Visualise loving things.

5. Create a journal called ‘Positive Aspects’ and write down positive aspects of yourself, your life and others. This will also aim to increase your vibration.

6. Make it your intent or desire, to love more and be more loving! Love is beautiful and people are EXTREMELY attracted to people who emit a loving frequency. In fact, you may find that you will have to turn your phone off at times.

What Side Effects Does Loving More Have In My Life?

Simple, it is the law of cause and effect. As much as I had been critical of the idea of ‘karma’, it is true that you often pull in what you put out.

If you are on a vibration of love you will look younger, feel more energy and motivation, be more successful, have higher self esteem, gain greater knowledge and awareness AND you cannot be phased by negative things or negative people because they are not on the same wavelength.

In fact, if you are vibrating at love, if someone attempts to start a fight with you, your allowing, non-offensive reaction will diffuse it and that person will be unable to receive the reaction they desire and therefore change their course of action.

Love is the answer to all things and it is necessary to ride the waves of prosperity. When you love more, you attract more loving people and situations into your life.

The answer is simple, in order to have more loving and pleasant life experiences, simply love more!