The Importance Of Helping Other People
- We all have customers in life.
- Our level of service determines our level of reward.
- By helping other people you will help yourself.
We live in a service economy. This means that in order for us to make money, we must exchange a service for a reward.
The principle of service therefore determines almost everything that happens to your life, as the amount of reward you receive, is directly proportional to the value of the service you provide.
We All Have Customers
In business, a company makes a profit by successfully serving a customer with goods and services at a cost above the price of production.
Just like businesses, individual people also have customers, and it is the satisfaction of those customers that ultimately determines the course of your career.
Who Are You Serving?
If your job involves directly dealing with customers, then your service to them determines your success.
For instance, if you were to open a new restaurant and then spend lots of money attracting new customers only to later provide poor service, it is unlikely those customers would return and your business would fail.
If your job involves working within an organisation then your boss would be your customer, and your job would be to help your boss achieve the things he/she is expected to accomplish.
If you fail to satisfy your boss, by providing low quality work, you will loose your job.
Satisfy Your Customers!
In order to be successful at what you do, it is extremely important to identify and then satisfy the customers in your life.
If you can do this you will not only ensure they come back for more, but will also increase your value to them and therefore the value of rewards you receive.
You Reap What You Sow
The law of “sowing and reaping” states that the fields of your life are sown with the seeds of your actions, and the harvest you collect from those fields is determined by the seeds you have sown.
In almost every single aspect of our lives this law can accurately explain what is happening to us, because it shows that what we are experiencing now is a direct result of our actions in the past, and therefore the actions we perform now will determine our future.
By Helping Others You Help Yourself
This is an extremely important concept to grasp, because what it means is that by helping other people to the best of your ability you automatically help yourself.
The more goals and objectives you can help people to accomplish, the more valuable you become to the world and the more prosperous you will become.
Sow Seeds Of Success, Not Seeds Of Failure
Unsuccessful people do not fully understand this concept and are most interested in serving themselves. When they do serve other people they do not put in much effort and as a result have bad relationships and poor jobs.
Successful people sprinkle the fields of their life with seeds of success. These seeds come in the form of many hours of hard work and good quality service, because they know that the seeds they plant now will determine the harvest they reap later.
Final Thoughts
It is quite clear that in order to get the things we want in life we must first help other people get the things they want, and this is done by providing a high level of service.
The more ways you can find to help other people achieve their goals the more valuable you will become, and the greater your rewards will be. These rewards may take the form of increased pay, better relationships or a more fulfilling life.
However, as dictated by the law of sowing and reaping, these rewards will always be proportional to the amount of effort you put into them.
You must therefore always try to provide the best quality service you can and work hard to increase the value of that service, because in the end by helping other people you will help yourself.
I believe in this theory in Life…
I have many memories of being Helped by other people
which in turn I have also helped people. Rewards for
sure are sometimes nice to see…as other people Reap
the benefits from being Open to their change :)))
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great post. truly awesome. thanks a lot for it.
I have really never given this any thought whatsoever, and this has totally oppenned my mind to a whole new concept. But I remember how many people I have helped in my life, only to have them not act in a way I felt was appropriate and later filled with regret. But when I see how thing’s are getting better and I am attracting better more helpful people, I am thinking that maybe this law does apply, but with perhaps a somewhat delayed effect. I’ve also hurt people who have hurt me, I am hoping that doesn’t return. Too much is too much!
I agree with you Vahid, often when you help people you are taken advantage of, taken for granted or not appreciated.
In this article i was talking more about the economic value of helping people. Whereby the more you can help people get what they want in life, the more useful you become to others.
In business, this means the more people you help to fulfil their needs, the more money you can make.
Of course this also applies on a personal level, whereby the more useful you are, the greater your percieved personal value is by those around you.
I do believe in karma, as i know from past experience when i have done wrong to others it has come back to me x3.
Although this does not seem to be the case when it comes to doing good to others, which is something i have been discussing with kim lately. Perhaps the good we put out comes back to us much later? Or in another life?
I thought about that and since we both know that sub-consiously our mind records everything, then maybe when we do ‘bad’ we beleive we are worthy of punishment. I have to disagree with the law of karma, it can look very much so in an external point of view, but it could all just be another form of sub-consious self sabotage. As for good things not happenning, could be the same thing. As far as Im concerned the closest thing to karma would be the rebounding effect with energy.
If you for example, piss someone off, they will be angry at you, they will be sending you negative energy and that would cling to your aura creating misfortune, I know this because I could always ‘feel’ when someone had hatred towards me. A more concentrated form of that would be a curse, I have done it, my neighbhour has been hit by a car brutally in a very unlikely scenario two weeks after I did the curse. No rebounding energies, there. But that is in large to do with my spiritual hygene, I clean my soul and chakras daily.
I also posed the question.. since my ancestors have gone through experiences and its been passed on.. (im not sure how much you know about genetic karma) and I can remove that ‘karma’ by reprogramming my brain and meditation.. should it not be beleivable that I can also deflect any kind of karma?
Can karma work in varying degrees. As in, I punched someone one day and get flicked the next? People seem to beleive karma isn’t flexible, by what is flexible? If I am paying the price for what my ancestors did, yet im finding a way to undo that, does that not mean you can undo karma. And my answer to that, would be what you and me would both agree on. If you can desire it, you can acheive it.
Look I’ve given it allot of thought, and I beleive that yes there is a rebounding energy effect but I also beleive that like anything, it is possible to deflect it or reduce it, through spiritual hygene.
And if your wondering about genetic karma… lets say my 3rd generation had a horrible experience… like they were attacked… then that fear would stay in their mind and be passed on, and to this day would affect me, I would persay, have insecurity and be afraid of being attacked and that thinking would bring on those same experienes, which would further strengthen the fear. Thats what I mean by genetic karma, when you think about it.. we weren’t designed to be anything but balanced and positive, I beleive its genetic trauma thats been passed on that has highly contributed to our negative experiences as they are attracted to us by thought, by the fears and insecurities which stem from before even our own lives. Not to mention the same effect with past lives and and childhood trauma. It gets deeper, you can be affected by something that is going to hurt you in the future. And I know because Ive had a balance on this in kineosoligy. You can be upset because you know somethings going to happen and that triggers a fear and creates more negative energy within you. The more attention, as you would know, that you give thenegative self, the more it grows and the more power it has over you.
But theres more.. how does this negative karma… work? Simple.. its a whole bunch of thought-forms, energy ‘creatures’ / ‘blocks’ in the body/mind/soul, I know this because when I did chakra work I physically felt the pain come to the surface and then be released and witht hat, I felt the fears go away, gradually, one by one.. the fears which are the genetic or childhood karma, which i fed through my own experience and thought.
It gets deeper than just the sub consious mind, as fear thought-forms live in the chakras and connect to the brain to give you those fear messages. Hence the ‘broken heart’ or getting a ’sick feeling in your stomache’ these things go right into the nervous system and send signals to the brain.
Thats why for some people affirmations can be impossible, I had to focus on elimiting the negative thought-forms before I could even get to reprogramming the mind. And as I did that I saw my seemingly impossible depression, begin to leave me. This is information most people do not know and it’s hard to explain because its not tangible, but its not hard to figure out.
But wait there’s more, and since you are willing to be open to new ideas there is more I want to share with you, such as, some of the many thing’s that the remainder of our brain is responsible for. When I oppenned a few of my chakras, I ended up using more % of my brain. Because the 7 main chakras, when oppenned, connect to the dormant parts of the brain which relay information. Basically, you become aware of trauma/negative thoughtforms, you feel them as a physical pain and you get sensitive to the feeling/sensations of the spirit. Like acitvating connections to a part of ourselves which seem invisible, and I speak from experience here, because, each of my chakras has a heartbeat, I feel them beat and pump energy if I focus on them. Last time I was checked, through bio-feedback, it was found I use 24% of my brain. Now that Ive oppenned all my main chakras, I assume I would use more. The remaining parts of our brain is what people would deep ’supernatural’ or ‘non-existent’ but they are just parts of us that were shut off, long ago. Such as clairaudesence, the ability to see and smell sound, pyschic abilities, etc, to name a few, theres lots of info about this on the JOS which im sure you’ll enjoy. It all works, and I know, because I am experiencing it.
Whatever you want to call it, the effects of karma are very real (at least for me) although i don’t know exactly why it happens.
Its interesting you mention being able to feel hatred towards you, as i have experienced this myself. Even if the person was in another room, i can remember feeling very uncomfortable and tense.
However the first time this happened to me, was not with hatred but with love. It was quite unexpected, but i suddenly felt this persons feelings towards me. Its difficult to describe in words.
But this doesn’t happen with everyone i meet, so maybe it just works for very strong feelings? Or people you have some kind of “link” with?
Tell me more about what you called “spiritual hygiene”, how do you clean your soul and chakras daily?
I have not heard about genetic karma before. Its troublesome enough having to deal with your own past wrongs, never mind those of your ancestors!
the closest thing i can relate genetic karma to it genetic memories, whereby the memories of our ancestors past experiences are passed onto us through our DNA. This then plays a role in determining the type of person you will become.
Whether or not this actually occurs is unknown and difficult to prove. Although i would not be surprised if some “extra” unknown information is passed throughout generations genetically.
As far as karma working in varying degrees my experience has been this. If you do something bad to someone else, eventually it will come back to you x3. It could happen the next day, or the next year or even in another life, but sooner or later karma will catch up with you.
(When i say x3 i cannot measure this, but it seems to come back to you a lot worse that you gave out)
This has been my experience, but then i think about all the bad people in the world who didn’t seem to suffer any negative consequences for their actions. So i have often wondered whether there is a way to “cleanse” yourself spiritually as you say.
I wont comment on being affected by something that could hurt you in the future, as i am writing an article on this subject right now. But what you have said is basically correct.
You have actually given quite of lot of useful information in the comments you have left on this site. Would you be able to write an article or articles talking about what you have learnt in the past year and the experiences/challenges you have faced, such as overcoming your depression and your spirtual growth?
I think my readers and I would benefit from reading such information, as you have obviously put a lot of work into your personal development and are able to communicate this well in writing.
Dear Martin, it’s very interesting what you wrote. Because there
is an explanation for all of it.
First off, when we have close relationships to people, we form a
’spiritual string’ which attaches from one or more of their chakras
to yours. This enables an understanding and deeper connection with
the other. Some people who we would call ‘Energy Vampires’ use this
oppertunity (often unconsiously) to drain others of their energy.
It is necessary to remove these connectiosn trhough advanced meditation
in order to be free. I remember feeling intense feelings of love
and missing an old partner, I realised that he was sending me those
feelings via energy, it was not from me. (thought I was fucking
happy that he still missed me!!!). When I took care of the
problem I never felt the acheing pain, not the slightest bit.
We are energy being’s and our souls are energy vessals and there is
allot going on in the 4th dimension, or the higher energy frequency
dimensions that science is just beginning to discover. Allot of this
info is on the JOS as I had mentioned.
Spiritual hygene is a must. Once I became very sick. I found out later
through bio-feedback that a so-called friend was hating me behind my back
he did this very duiscretly but when I questioned him about it he
admitted that he was ‘pissed off’. He had a very strong aura.
But that was then, this is now… his negative energy now repels from me
Last I heard.. he’s on
and back onto him.. so take that asshole.
drugs to cope with life.
So cleaning chakras is very important especially if like me you have
attracted siuations in your life where there are negative people
around you, try living next door to one in attached housing!!!!
joyofsatan.org has information on cleaning chakras etc, most people
are free to use this.
I’ll explain genetic karma to you. All negative action that you would
be inspired to do, and all negative experiences as a child that you
receive would be due to two things, genetic karma and
past life karma. This ‘karma’ can literely be ‘karma’ for just having
bad experiences. From personal experience… and I am totally certaon on this.
Like everything.. ‘Karma’ can be removed.. or greatly reduced.
This is how karma works… I’ll give you an explanation.
I had this irky feeling I would get robbed, and ive had it throughout
my life, as I know thoughts attract… I try to put it out… this feeling
or fear.. is genetic kjarma. Its the result of my ancestors experiences.
So I bought a security system. Now funnily enough I kept thinking
‘this sticker is so ugly, I should take it down and go for another one’
I didn’t actually install the system asyet, just put the stickers up.
My negative self was creating thought’s of being robbed then trying to sabotage
my plans for safety. This is THE NEGATIVE SELF!! THIS IS KARMA!!!
It will keep playing with your head until it gets its way. But if you manage to
deflect it, then you can completely overcome ‘karma’. It’s very simple spiritual science
to me. The same goes for the Positive Self aka Good Karma. The negative self, as I
mentioned, is a collection of negative thought-forms which in itself, though it is
attached to you, is not really you, but we are fooled intot hinking it is us.
We are spirit, and very very wise souls. The negative self is the aspect of us
which isn’t inclined to perfect thought and action.
My kiniosoligst is a pure positive thinkr, and she is so because she did the work
to completely remove her negative self, nothing gets to her, she has not a care
in the world, and this is how anyone can live.
Negative karma creates negative thought’s and inspires action which is not in
alignment with spirit, in order for negative karmic experiences to repeat.
IT IS AS FUCKING SIMPLE AS THAT!!! I’ll bank my life on it. This is something
most people should know, especially people like me, who has a lineage of
traumatic acnestral roots who, like most of my family, are paying dearly for it.
Removing the negative thought-forms, is a way to remove the geneticpast-life
and childhood karma.
But the thought-forms are not easy to identify, identifying them is the
hard part, after that all you need to do is a simple meditation and then
use your intuition to know eather or not it has left your body, clean
yoru chakras afterwards and repeat this process until you are free
I have removed around 95% of the negative self. It is almost gone!
It’s trying hard to grow by sending me negative thought’s so it can
be fed with energy/attention but im doing the best I can to ignore it.
It will soon no longer be a problem and ‘karma’ is gone.
As for my life story, that is a wonderful idea! But I am actually going
to write a website, with my experiences and struggle with ‘karma’ and how
Satanism and satan in particular helped me to overcome it all and be free.
Well i didn’t literally mean your life story, but rather important things you have learnt recently as you mentioned you have been working hard on self improvement in the last year.
Please let me know when you get your site online, as i would be very interested in reading it!
In the meantime, feel free to make a contribution to the “Your Self Improvement Tips” page i recently created.
http://www.eruptingmind.com/your-self-improvement-tips/
p.s. I am almost finished with the new articles i mentioned before, i think they might interest you!
Well, I think there is a lot of sound and incomplete information mized up in these comments.
To make it short, karma of ancestors or past lives is nothing more then a myth. The reality is this that we are responsible only for our conscious life and are rewarded accordingly. The actions of ancestors or ancestors of ancestors has nothing to do with us on individual level. However, nationally or tribally it could effect as the history of a nation largely impacts its present and future. But here we are talking on an individual level, and on this level we experience only that which is done by us consciously. For example, a mother unconciously makes a para-doxical intention and due to this her child falls from the stairs, does this mean she has done bad and now must be punished for it? No, this was done unconcsiously and thus there is no need to punish her for that. Similarly, if there was a past life (which i dont agree on individual level) even then if we did something wrong, we were accountable in that life, and a new life means new responsibilities and results accordingly. We are only our present, past can guide us but can not effect us. This is our present which makes our future.
As for Martin that why does he not get the good as swiftly as the evil, it is because of two major reasons. Firstly those people who have strong personal values and spiritual light recive karmic effects more fastly as comparing to those who are ignorant. This becomes an added advantage because by this you are more taught then others and your level of wisdom, intellect and intution is greatly increased which results in all sorts of benefits. Secondly, the bad (3X) effects are actually not bad, but rather the consideration which makes them bad. As it is known very well that it is completely dependent upon us that how do we percieve a situation to label it an evil or good? Each evil, in this case, brings a gross good. Soemtimes the good is wide open and sometimes in the wrapper of supposed-evil. For example a father of someone dies at a younger age, at first this looks evil but in the long run this looks better as this makes the person to become professioanl and resposnible quite earlier and by this the person is mroe likely to become successful if remain optimistic.
So basically, Martin always faces the good but msotly it is in the disguise of evil. Why in this disguise mostly? because unfortunately more and mroe evil is spread in and around our environment. so the Universe selects the mediums which appear to be evil, but always bring good for those who always try to do good and abstain from bad.
Worshiping satan in anyway is not a recommended method and any beenfits by it would surely be real evil, may be in disguise of Good.
First of all, your concept of viewing Satan as ‘evil’ is just a cultural pre-conception, you have not met him or spoken to him, so you cannot judge. Second, yes genetic karma is real, I know this because I worked with it extensively and felt many genetic traumatic experience bubble to the surface,a s I was working on my spirit and with the oppenning and empowering of my 7 chakras. This was all tested 100% accurate, 100’s of times, with the biofeedback system, with a highly qualified kinesologist, if you don’t beleive me google ‘genetic, kinesology’ and you will see what im talking.
Im sorry but you are suffering from ‘know it all’ syndrome, and that could really set you back. Nobody ever knows it all, knowledge is infinite.
And also I have grown allot since then and have learnt not to advertise my personal beleifs on a website that is adesigned for learning and personal growth. My apologies for this Martin and Kim!
I don’t beleive one needs to be with any diety for personal growth, but it could benefit some, as it has for me. And you have to consider that I am still in the process of aligning neural pathways to create less ‘approval seeking’ thought-orientated actions. It’s all a process which takes time and awareness.
I beleive one’s journey really should not depend on any beleif system, rather the unique experiences one has, which I think is always in perfect alignment with the outcomes they are truly wanting. Of course I wasn’t as highly aware of this a month ago or so, but it is a learning process for me as well, and I do make mistakes on a day to day basis, as I will definately be willing to admit. I’m not quite on the level that Martin is on, but I’m working on it.
And as for this conception of ‘evil’ any diety which is older than 1 million years, is too evolved to be in such a way. I beleive all the material represents him innacurately because people tend to put their own flaws in the mix. He has never said ‘hate’ or ‘revenge’, unless he is dictating the natural coruse of events which would result in a negative outcome for the party in which he dissaproves of, and in regards to ‘hate’ i dont beleive that either, he has never usedthe word, only dissaproved of. I have asked questions via my biofeedback system as I have known him in past lifes and I beleive that entirety of the world, does not know who he is! But I am also learning to hold my tongue on that matter because I realise the world is not at a level in which they can analyse the information out there with logic to dictate what really is true or false in regards to these so-called ‘pseudo magickal/fantasy’ beings.
I dont really think that i know everything. Learning is crucial to me till death. I wrote an article which deals with this know-it-all syndrome. Its name is “Dealing with people who think they are perfect”.
However, i would keep more care in future so no one can feel as if i am pretending to be someone perfect.
Okay Kim, I didn’t mean to be rude or offensive with my reply there, but I was a bit emotionally charged. x.
When you want to help others, you need to first take care of yourself. Self-care is about replenishing ourselves so that we can have enough energy, creativity, love, and joy to spread to others. It is only when we do that that we can really be helpful to others who need us.